Dog in weddings: cute or chaos?
Including pets in weddings, vow renewals and any other ceremony is becoming increasingly popular, and as a dog-loving celebrant, I couldn’t be happier about it! One of the cutest trends? Making your dog the ring bearer. But is it a recipe for heart-melting moments or absolute chaos? Let’s dig into the pros, the cons, and how to prepare for every eventuality when your four-legged family member is part of your big day.
Why have a dog as a ring bearer?
Dogs are part of the family, so it’s no surprise that more couples are choosing to include them in their wedding ceremonies. Here’s why having your dog as a ring bearer could be a great idea:
1. Unmatched cuteness and emotional value
Picture this: your furry best friend, decked out with a bow tie or a flower crown, trotting down the aisle with your wedding rings. It’s an instant “aww” moment and a guaranteed tear-jerker. Plus, having your pet involved adds a deeply personal touch to your ceremony.
2. Emotional support
If you’re the kind of person who finds comfort in having your pet nearby (especially during nerve-wracking moments), then having your dog walk down the aisle with you or sit by your side during vows can be incredibly grounding.
3. Unique photo opportunities
From pre-ceremony cuddles to that all-important walk down the aisle, dogs make for some of the most memorable wedding photos. And let’s face it—dogs in little tuxedos or flower garlands are just too cute for words!
What to consider before making your dog the ring bearer
As adorable as it sounds, having your dog as a ring bearer does require some planning. Here’s what you need to think about:
1. Potty breaks
We’ve all heard of wedding-day jitters, but nobody wants to see them in the form of an “accident” on the aisle runner. Make sure to schedule potty breaks to avoid any mishaps.
2. Vocal contributions
Dogs are great at making their voices heard. Whether it’s barking during the vows or howling along with the music, be prepared for some unscripted commentary.
3. Distractions and surprises
A rogue squirrel, a dropped canapé, or even a guest’s perfume could send your pup off on an unexpected adventure. It’s essential to have a plan in place to manage any potential distractions.
4. Safety first
Make sure the rings are securely attached—ideally to a custom-made collar or pillow that the dog is comfortable wearing. You don’t want those precious symbols of love getting lost in a game of fetch!
Top tips for including your dog in your wedding ceremony
To ensure your dog’s debut as a ring bearer goes smoothly, keep these practical tips in mind:
Assign a dog handler: Designate a trusted friend, family member, or even a professional pet sitter to be on “dog duty.” This allows you to relax and enjoy your day without worrying about your furry friend.
Practice makes perfect: Have a few practice runs before the big day, ideally at the venue or a similar environment, so your dog gets comfortable with the role.
Check with Your venue: Not all venues allow pets, so make sure to get the green light before planning your dog’s grand entrance.
Emergency kit: Bring essentials like water, snacks, poop bags, and a favourite toy for comfort and distraction.
Why I love dogs as ring bearers
I might be a bit biased (okay, definitely biased) because I absolutely adore dogs. To me, they’re not just pets; they’re part of the family. Including them in your wedding not only adds a unique and personal touch but also ensures that everyone who matters is there to celebrate your special day—including the furry ones!
One of the delightful parts of being a pop-up celebrant is helping you create a ceremony that truly reflects who you are as a couple. If that means planning for a few barks during the vows or navigating a cheeky tail-wagging photo-bomber, I’m here for it!
Ready to include your dog in your wedding?
If you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s as unique as your love story, with a ring bearer who might just steal the show, get in touch! I’d love to help you plan a pet-friendly ceremony that’s full of fun, flair, and feel-good vibes.
Considering a dog as your ring bearer? Contact me today, and let’s make it happen!
